The day had finally arrived, January 9, for our sonogram to check on baby Hanks and their growth, and to (hopefully!) find out the gender!
At this point, I was 19 weeks and had not yet started to
feel the little flutters of baby Hanks.
I had started to show (at least in my opinion), but I was still wearing
my regular clothes.
Colin of course joined me at the appointment, and it took us
a while to understand what we were seeing.
The ultrasound technician is obviously a pro and could move the wand and in an
instant have another measure she needed.
I, an anxious mother-to-be, couldn’t help myself but ask “is everything
looking good so far?” every few minutes (probably more like seconds).
Everything was, and we even got to see baby dancing a bit as we tried to
get them to cooperate for the heart measurement. Our ultrasound tech said “earthquake!” as she tried
to rumble my belly to get some movement.
Baby Hanks was perfectly content to prop their head up with one hand and
suck on their thumb as they dozed off it seemed. When she asked where the stubbornness comes
from, Colin guiltily accepted the charge.
Then, came the time to confirm the gender. I had told her that Colin was going to find
out there, but I didn’t want to know just yet.
She was a bit surprised, but I told her that he was going to surprise me
later that evening somehow (an idea we stole from some of our sweet friends!). I loved it – it gave him a chance to surprise
me since I had already gotten to surprise him with the big news that we were
expecting. I looked away from the screen
and watched Colin’s face. At first, I
could tell she was moving too fast for him to see or be able to distinguish
anything, but then I saw a smile creep across his face, and I knew he knew.
Now, there are a ton of old wives’ tales about how you can
tell if it’s a boy or girl, but bottom line – everyone is different. The biggest clue or guess I had was that my
Mom had gotten sick when she was pregnant with me, but not with my older
brother. Since I did not experience any
nausea the first trimester, our guess was that it was a boy. Our parents, Jill, and Micah had all guessed
boy, but Ryan guessed a little girl.
After all the good news from the doctor that baby was
healthy and measuring right on track, I headed home and Colin headed out to run
some errands for the surprise. Once he
got home, he setup the gender reveal and walked me over to it (“no peeking!”). When I opened my eyes and saw a PINK “Baby
Girl!” balloon and pink A&M booties, I couldn’t believe it. Tears filled my eyes and I had to ask him if
he was serious because we were so convinced it was a boy. It was a sweet, sweet moment that I will
cherish forever. We knew God had blessed
us with a little girl.
I attempted to dry my tears, and we made the phone calls to
family to let them know – lots of surprised folks! We shared the news with our parents via
Face Time so they could see the balloon and know, while we watched their reactions,
which was fun. After that, we couldn’t
stand it any longer. It was time to make
baby GIRL Hanks official on Facebook with a little announcement and spread the
news of our little blessing.






